Choose Your Life Monday is an invitation to name what pattern you will lovingly notice this week and to do so in community. Of course, you can do it any day you want- you don’t have to start on Monday. Join in when and whenever suits you. I’m in that complete and utter who-the-hell-knows-what’s-up place. You know, the place where you just hope know something major is about to shift in your psyche but for [...]

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I got sick on Thanksgiving. Icky sick. And then felt yucky all weekend and until, really, Friday. Bob, the beloved boyfriend, pointed out, lovingly, as he is wont to do, that I don’t like to admit I’m sick. He is, yet again, right. I don’t like to admit I’m sick because it doesn’t fit my [...]

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Hey, I love gratitude as much as the next self-help writer…. Only… I didn’t used to. I used to not get the whole gratitude rap.  Trying to be grateful always felt strained to me, forced and pious. Set my teeth on edge. As in I should be grateful. Cue the angels. (Have I mentioned I’m [...]

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