Choose Your Life Monday is an invitation to name what pattern you will lovingly notice this week and to do so in community. Join in when and however suits you. Last week I declared I would lovingly pay attention to when I am second guessing, over working or otherwise prevaricating and I will lovingly look for the thought – which comes in [...]

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My brilliant friend and Writer’s Retreat guest star Havi Brooks loving advises that the first step in taking care of yourself is to meet yourself where you are.Yeah for Havi! For me, that usually looks like saying something like, “I so don’t want to be afraid and I so don’t want to stop and feel [...]

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Welcome to my long OVERDUE new website. The original Comfortqueen.com launched in May 2000 and although we made changes along the way, for the last three years, it was dated, riddled with broken links, and no longer reflected me. People would report broken links and ask where the e-cards went or that they missed the [...]

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I’m a Frito Bandito… Just had to write that. I’m dating myself! I needed to write to CONNECT. I miss our conversations and yet I feel our connection, us creative thinking heart women webbed around the world, opening and closing with the tide of life. I’M STILL ALIVE and I’m actually, well, great. And good. [...]

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